I always wanted to try water bondage so. I wrote on Craiglist: “Looking Submissive Man Who Isn’t Afraid of Nude Beach Bondage.” One sub sent an email, we exchanged pictures. he was super thrilled. I explained to him that the safe “word” was actually a body gesture: he had to shake his head vigorously, as if says “stop” emphatically.

In an email:

Me: Are you really afraid to try to do some beach bondage?

Sub: No. I’m a real beach boy. I’ve never tried water bondage. I want to please you 100% and will do anything you wish.

Me: Well, we don’t know each other so you do trust me?

Sub: Yes. Why not?

Me: The reason that you allow yourself to try new things, you never thought possible, experience the curious I bring to you. So. I want to make sure you must have a “SAFE WORD”! Because I cannot hear you, beach bondage is a very dangerous. Do you understand?

Sub: Yes, Ma’aM!

Me: Aw! BITCH.

Sub: What?

Me: You will see.

Sub: OK

When we met I realized that I wasn’t attracted to him but I felt comfortable with him so we drove to the nude beach. He carried all of our bags and equipment. The weather was mostly cloudy after the rain in the previous day. There was high tide and the shore was rough. Even thought the weather wasn’t the best it was still pretty crowed. We Walked to the end of the clothing-optional area and set up our spot.

He stared me at me when I undressed. “What the fuck are you looking at? Come here bitch”. I tied him up then told him to get on his knees down on the sand. He didn’t seem afraid of the high tide. He knew that he wanted to please me even though he didn’t know what was about to happen. I told him I was going to start with tickling, “Ahhh…please”. I real his lips: Please “Ma’am” I slapped his face. Don’t ever fucking to say, Ma’am”. I don’t like that word. I started tickling under his armpit then ribs, “Ahhh..yeaaaa, Bondage Freaky!” He was breathless. I roughly pulled his hair and told him to shut his eyes. “Don’t open the eyes or you will get hurt badly”. He had no idea what I was talking about. “Do you want to be safe?” “Oh yes, Freak Bondage!” I told him to tell me the letter, FB please. “FB“. Yes, because you Fucking Bitch. I grabbed some sand and threw it at him as hard as HELL. He was starting to have difficulty balancing. “Are you trying to look at my pussy again?” He didn’t answer. I kicked his cock. “Ohh no no no please, Freak Bondage!” His was barely keeping his body balanced.

“Do you know why I am dong this to you? “No?” Because you fucking lied to me because you betrayed me by sending fake pictures of yourself.” He was shivering. He couldn’t talk to me. I reminded him that he could always use his safe word. “No, I am fine. I’m just cold” I pulled his hair again, “Let me ask you a question. Do you want tickle torture or want me to kick your cock, bitch?” He shook his head. “What? Safe Word?” He shook his head again. He was confusing the gesture, “stop” with using the safe word. I roughly pulled the rope behind his back and his knees. He walked backward. “Ouch! PLEASE” His knees were red from the rough sand. I was glad, I wanted to leave a satisfying red mark. “You deserve this. You’ll do nothing unless I tell you to. You got that, bitch?” I am so sorry. I deserve it.” I took my camera and snapped a few pictures of him then I told him pull his knees up. I took rope off and he smiled at me. “I I know you want a reward”. “Yes! please”. “You first reward will be to lick the sand off my feet. You better do a good job too” I was lying on the sand with my feet up. “Bitch! Are you trying to stare at my pussy again?” He looked away. I laughed at him. “I can’t take it anymore. I am begging, PLEASE. I will never betray to you again.”

People watching us seemed to freak out a little. A few people were close to us, but didn’t complain. I was worried, but I was glad that no one called police.

I have always been curious about the Feeldoe for a long time. I finally bought one in July. I’ve only fucked a man using a strap-on. I’ve always enjoyed it and can bring myself to multiple orgasms when fucking a man.
In late June, a switch male friend showed me one of his toys. A blue feeldoe that he had never used. I tried it on and it felt so great!
A few weeks later, my switch friend and I were talking about playing with his beautiful submissive girlfriend. I’ve never had a bi experience before and I was nervous but curious.
We started to play and she choose my feeldoe instead of him. I was very shy because I didn’t feel entirely confident around her.
The switch wore a chastity device and sat on the chair where I tied him up. She was laying on the bed. I was trying to figure out what position to tie her. I felt mentally blocked about tying her up since I had only tied up men. I started to improvise with rope and I realized the Feeldoe would fall out if I were to open her legs a little bit wider. My focus was fixed with feeldoe on her. I felt very awkward and tried to please myself at same time. I watched her as she was feeling lots of pleasure. I struggle to find a position that would please me as well. She could tell that I wasn’t getting as much pleasure as she was getting so I decided to change the position. I fixed the ropes and kept going. I watch her face and knew she was moaning even though I could not hear her. I could feel her skin so warm and soft. I was afraid to touch her pussy it was so wet. My rope technique made it impossible for me to fuck her. I was not used to tying woman, this was a first for me. I realize that I really love fucking men and men only.
I still can’t even believe how I did this with woman. My first bi-curious experience with a submissive woman had been a failure. Sometime I have to use a harness set up. That works well for me. If I want a woman’s legs to be wide open a feeldoe just won’t work.
The feeldoe did give me my first G-spot experience. For many years I had a hard time finding the G-Spot. With the Feeldoe I could have multiple orgasm and increase my sex drive even burn more calories! I wish i could fuck a sub man every week as a workout. I’d love to tie up a sub for 30-45 minutes at at time to be fucked as my boy toy. Perfect exercise,
I really don’t know how to play with a woman. I doubt that I would play with a woman again in the future. I’d love to practice bondage on a woman but nothing more.

I had a great time with a submissive man a few weeks ago. He is hyper sensitive with bondage and I enjoy that a lot. He made me laugh and feel powerful. Using a submissive is a form of therapy for me.

We met at his condo in Manhattan. I tied him up first then put him on the bed. Tied each limb to the corner of bed. He had no idea what I was going to do. I walked around his place to take a look and found music. I turned on some loud sexy music.

Sub: Oh no no no please. I am begging you. I am so embarrassed.

Me: How dare you! I can’t hear you. You know better!

I put a heavy tape over his mouth. He couldn’t talk to me again. I told him: “I am going to scratch you more thantickle. He screamed and laughed at same time, (moaning) breathing heavy. I kept playing different spots on him. I added feather to tickle his balls. He became freak, he could not deal with spots.

Me: Do you want to try and escape from me?

Sub: Yes, (head move up and down) then he tried to get out.

I played mind games, teasing him, tickling him. I was laughing at him. I have heard about tickling someone to arousal, so I encouraged him with a feather on the top of his cock and he got an erection easily, but when I started to tickle him harder he lost his erection. I was laughing so hard at him. Then I force him to get an erection again. I learned that the most fun part for him was the conflict between trying to keep erection at same time pleasing me, but he couldn’t, because I was denying him. I told him: if you can’t give pleasure to me then the ticking will continue. He couldn’t move so he didn’t have a choice.

When tickle I like the challenge of playing with submissive mentality and sexuality at the same time.

My question, I have heard about tickling that leads to orgasm, especially with submissive women. Why can’t submissive men be tickled to orgasm as well?

“A Day without laughter is day wasted.” Charlie Chaplin

Last weekend I went to TesFest for the first time. The TesFest classes were much better than the classes at Black Rose last year.

Speed Bondage was an amazing class presented by Lochai. I learned some new and exciting things, it helped increase my confidence and speed. After the presentation I went to vendors area and brought high quality rope for the first time. 2 15 foot and 2 of 30 foot hemp ropes from Venus Ropes. Afterwards, I found two cute boytoys for ropes play. I loved my new rope. I could feel the difference from using cotton and nylon.

At night I walked though the dungeon area. I was hopping to find a cute and younger sub for practicing my rope skills but couldn’t find any I was attracted to. I saw one Dominant guy beating up, tying and wrestling with a submissive man. It was the hottest thing I ever saw. I was turned on by watching it and it made me feel jealous.

Oh fucking my god! My best friend’s friend got extremely bruised from a caning session. I’ve never seen anything like it. I beating a boy that badly, then I would fucking him with strap-on and, making him a slut.

The Suspension presentation by Amanda was canceled because of medical emergency so, I went to Electricity: Shockingly Affordable presented by BoyMeat. I have never been interested in electro play, but after the presentation I realized I how much fun it could be. Electro play is really very powerful both sexually and psychologically. That was my favorite class by far!

Laughter Bondage was presented by Lochia is was one of my favorite’s as well. Lochia could be a stand up comedian.

I love water Bondage class presented by Lolita, Felica and Sharin as well.

I went with my friends to the nude beach at Fire Island last 2 weeks . The day was mostly cloudy until about 11:30, then the sun came out; thank God.

My friend told me about a weirdo. He warned me, but I wasn’t paying attention. He kept telling me about a man who kept staring at women. I just nodded. I lay on the sand, relaxing, then I started to smoke. My legs were spread open to keep my pussy cool.

A man suddenly came up to me: “Can I borrow your lighter?” I closed my legs. I realized that my friend was right. I gave him a light. His cock was already erect in front of me. I felt sick looking at it.

After a few minutes he sat down on the sand and began to finger his girlfriend’s (or wife’s) pussy while she was reading a book. The women was not pretty and she was overweight. I could see she was enjoying it. Obviously he was very obsessed with pussy. I couldn’t believe they were doing this in public. If I were in his position I would do bondage play on the beach, but not in such a sexual way - erotic, maybe; but not sexual.

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